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Beach Military Divorce Lawyer Virginia Beach, VA

A sailor stationed at Naval Air Station Oceana learned his spouse had filed for divorce in Virginia Beach Circuit Court. With a deployment approaching, he worried about his military pension, custody of his children, and how Virginia law would treat his service. He needed counsel who understood both state divorce statutes and the federal protections military service members hold. Mr. Sris and his Of Counsel team at Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C. Concentrate their practice on family law, including military divorce. If you face a similar situation, reach our firm at (888) 437-7747 to request a consultation. Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C. — Advocacy Without Borders.

How Our Firm Handles Military Divorce Cases

Military divorce adds layers few family law matters encounter: the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA), jurisdiction questions when a service member is stationed away from the state of legal residence, and the division of military retired pay under the Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act (USFSPA). Mr. Sris and his Of Counsel evaluate the facts through both the Virginia equitable-distribution framework and the federal overlay that governs military benefits.

We work to resolve property classification, custody arrangements, and spousal support while accounting for deployment schedules and relocation. Whether the proceeding is uncontested or a contested matter involving fault grounds under Va. Code § 20-91, counsel from our firm aim to advance the service member’s or military spouse’s position with a thorough, informed approach.

What to Expect from the Military Divorce Process

Virginia law requires at least six months’ domiciliary residency before a divorce may be filed in the Commonwealth’s courts. For a service member stationed in Virginia Beach but maintaining legal residence elsewhere, jurisdiction must be established carefully. The Virginia Beach Circuit Court—located at 2425 Nimmo Parkway—holds exclusive jurisdiction over the divorce itself and the equitable-distribution determination, while the Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court handles standalone custody and support matters.

The timeline varies by the complexity of the property and the level of agreement between the parties. A signed separation agreement that resolves all issues can streamline the proceeding. Mediation is available but not mandatory in Virginia. Because military pay and allowances can be structured in multiple components, counsel experienced in military family law can help the court correctly identify marital property.

Consequences Unique to Military Divorce

A military divorce affects more than a state decree. The division of disposable retired pay, survivor benefit plan (SBP) elections, and the treatment of VA disability pay are matters governed by federal law. The 20/20/20 rule—where a former spouse may retain full military benefits if the marriage lasted at least 20 years overlapping 20 years of creditable service and the couple was married 20 years—can impact health-care eligibility. A Virginia court may not divide VA disability benefits as marital property, though it may consider them for support obligations.

Child custody and visitation can be interrupted by deployment. Virginia courts apply the trusted-interests factors under Va. Code § 20-124.3, but the SCRA allows a service member to request a stay of proceedings if military duties materially affect the ability to participate. Mr. Sris and his Of Counsel are familiar with these intersecting statutes and work to protect the client’s parental rights throughout the matter.

Attorney Credentials

Mr. Sris, Owner and Founder of Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C., is admitted in Virginia, Maryland, the District of Columbia, New Jersey, and New York. A former prosecutor, he has practiced since 1997. Mr. Sris testified before the Virginia House Courts of Justice Committee in support of 2019 HB 635 (chief patron Del. David Bulova). He is supported by Of Counsel attorneys who bring over 120 years of combined legal experience between Mr. Sris and his Of Counsel, with 4,739+ documented firm-wide results. Results may vary.

Last reviewed: May 2026

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Frequently Asked Questions

Does military divorce follow Virginia law?

Yes, if the divorce is filed in Virginia, the circuit court applies the Virginia equitable-distribution statute and the state’s grounds for divorce under § 20-91. Federal statutes like the SCRA and USFSPA govern certain procedural rights and the division of military retired pay, so both bodies of law apply.

Can I get custody of my child while deployed?

Virginia courts focus on the best interests of the child. A parent’s deployment is a factor the court may consider, but the service member can propose a family-care plan that allows a family member or trusted adult to exercise parenting time during deployment. The SCRA also permits a stay of custody proceedings while the service member is on active duty.

What happens to my military pension in a divorce?

Under the USFSPA, state courts may treat disposable military retired pay as marital property and divide it according to Virginia’s equitable-distribution factors. A specific court order—often a military retired pay division order—is needed for the Defense Finance and Accounting Service to make direct payments to the former spouse. VA disability benefits are not divisible.

Do I need to appear in Virginia Beach Circuit Court?

If you are a service member stationed elsewhere or deployed, the SCRA allows you to request a stay of proceedings. In some uncontested matters, your attorney can appear on your behalf, but the court may require your participation at a final hearing. Consult with counsel at (888) 437-7747 to review your specific circumstances.

How is child support calculated for a service member?

Virginia uses statutory guidelines that consider the combined gross income of both parents. For a service member, all elements of military pay—basic pay, basic allowance for housing, and subsistence—are included in income. The Virginia Division of Child Support Enforcement can also assist in establishing or enforcing orders.

Can a military spouse keep base housing after separation?

Base housing eligibility typically ends when the service member departs the installation. A court can order the service member to provide support that helps the spouse secure alternative housing, but the court cannot compel the military to allow continued on-base residency. Temporary pendente lite support is available through the Virginia court under Va. Code § 20-103.

Schedule a Consultation

To discuss a military divorce in Virginia Beach, contact Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C. at (888) 437-7747. Our Richmond location serves clients at the Virginia Beach Circuit Court and the Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court by appointment. Call to request a consultation with Mr. Sris and his Of Counsel.

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