Intake line staffed 24 / 7 / 365 · English & Spanish

Norfolk Military Divorce Lawyer Henrico County, VA

Toll-free intake · Consultations by appointment · Intake available in English and Spanish

Norfolk Military Divorce Lawyer Henrico County, VA






Norfolk Military Divorce Lawyer Henrico County, VA

You are a service member or military spouse stationed at Naval Station Norfolk, and your marriage is reaching its end. You live in Henrico County—maybe in the Short Pump area, Glen Allen, or Tuckahoe—and you commute to base. Now you face a divorce that involves military pension division under the Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act, custody arrangements that must account for deployment schedules, and support obligations calculated against a service member’s unique pay structure. The stakes feel higher than a civilian divorce because your career, your security clearance, and your retirement are all in play. Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C. represents clients in military divorce matters throughout Virginia, including Henrico County and the Norfolk area. Mr. Sris and the firm’s Of Counsel attorneys understand the intersection of Virginia equitable distribution law and federal military-pay regulations. Reach the firm at (888) 437-7747 to request a consultation. Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C. – Advocacy Without Borders.

What Military Divorce Means in Henrico County, Virginia

Military divorce is a family law matter governed by Virginia Code Title 20, but it carries an additional layer of federal statutes—principally the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) and the Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act (USFSPA)—that do not apply in civilian divorces. In Henrico County, divorce petitions are filed in the Henrico County Circuit Court, located at 4301 East Parham Road. The Circuit Court has exclusive jurisdiction over divorce and equitable distribution under Va. Code § 20-96. Matters involving custody, visitation, and child support that arise outside the divorce itself are heard in the Henrico County Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court.

Virginia is an equitable distribution state under Va. Code § 20-107.3. The court classifies property as marital, separate, or hybrid and divides it fairly—not necessarily equally—based on eleven statutory factors. For a military family, this often means the court must determine what portion of a service member’s pension was earned during the marriage and apply the USFSPA’s rules for dividing that pension. The Henrico County Circuit Court handles these determinations. A military divorce also raises questions about the service member’s ability to stay proceedings under the SCRA, jurisdiction over a service member stationed in Virginia but domiciled elsewhere, and how the Virginia guidelines for child support apply to a pay structure that includes basic allowance for housing (BAH) and basic allowance for subsistence (BAS).

The firm’s Richmond location serves clients throughout Henrico County, including the communities of Glen Allen, Short Pump, Innsbrook, Tuckahoe, Highland Springs, and Mechanicsville. Mr. Sris and the firm’s Of Counsel attorneys appear regularly in the Henrico County Circuit Court and the Henrico County Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court. Each military divorce involves a careful analysis of the service member’s Leave and Earnings Statement, the member’s expected retirement date, and the interaction between Virginia’s equitable distribution factors and the federal statutory framework.

How Mr. Sris and the Firm’s Of Counsel Attorneys Handle Military Divorce Cases

A military divorce in Virginia typically begins with filing a Complaint in the Circuit Court where one of the parties resides. Under Va. Code § 20-97, at least one party must have been a resident and domiciliary of Virginia for six months before filing. For a service member stationed in Virginia, establishing domicile versus mere residency can be a threshold issue. Mr. Sris and the firm’s Of Counsel attorneys examine the jurisdictional facts early—where the service member votes, registers a vehicle, and maintains a driver’s license—to determine whether Virginia is the proper forum.

Once jurisdiction is established, the next steps depend on whether the divorce is contested or uncontested. An uncontested military divorce with a signed separation agreement can proceed on the no-fault ground of six months’ separation under Va. Code § 20-91(9)(b), provided the parties have no minor children and have resolved all issues in writing. If the divorce is contested—meaning the parties disagree on custody, support, or property division—the case moves through discovery, possibly including interrogatories, depositions, and the exchange of financial records. Military pension valuation often requires a forensic accountant or a pension valuator to calculate the marital share of the service member’s retirement. The firm works with professionals who perform these calculations.

The SCRA provides service members with protections against default judgments and the ability to request a stay of proceedings when military duties prevent them from participating in court. Mr. Sris and the firm’s Of Counsel attorneys are experienced in raising and responding to SCRA issues, whether the firm represents the service member or the spouse. In cases where the service member is deployed or stationed overseas, the firm takes steps to ensure proper service of process and to protect the client’s ability to participate in the proceedings. The timeline for a military divorce varies depending on whether the SCRA stay is invoked, the complexity of the pension division, and the court’s calendar.

About Mr. Sris and the Firm’s Of Counsel Attorneys

Mr. Sris, Owner and Founder of Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C., is a former prosecutor. He founded the firm in 1997 and practices across multiple areas, including family law and military divorce. He testified before the Virginia House Courts of Justice Committee in support of 2019 HB 635 (chief patron Del. David Bulova), addressing issues of equitable distribution under Virginia law. Mr. Sris is admitted in Virginia, Maryland, the District of Columbia, New Jersey, and New York.

The firm’s Of Counsel attorneys bring experience in family law, criminal defense, and civil litigation. They appear in Virginia courts at both the Circuit Court and General District Court levels. Because each attorney is Of Counsel—not an associate or partner—each one brings independent professional judgment to the matters they handle. The firm’s Of Counsel attorneys work with Mr. Sris on complex military divorce cases, including those involving business valuation, high net worth estates, and contested custody arrangements. The firm’s Richmond location is at 7400 Beaufont Springs Drive, Suite 300, Richmond, Virginia. Consultations are by appointment. Results may vary.

Frequently Asked Questions

How does a military divorce differ from a civilian divorce in Virginia?

A military divorce in Virginia involves the same grounds and procedures as a civilian divorce under Va. Code § 20-91, but adds federal statutes including the USFSPA for pension division and the SCRA for procedural protections. The USFSPA permits state courts to divide military disposable retired pay as marital property. The SCRA allows a service member to request a stay of proceedings if military duties materially affect their ability to participate. Virginia child support guidelines apply to military pay, but the court must determine what components of military compensation count as income. For guidance on how these laws apply to your situation, reach Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C. at (888) 437-7747.

What grounds for divorce are available in a Virginia military divorce?

Virginia offers both no-fault and fault grounds for divorce under Va. Code § 20-91, and a military divorce may proceed on any of them. No-fault grounds require a one-year separation, or a six-month separation if the parties have no minor children and have signed a separation agreement. Fault grounds include adultery—which carries no waiting period—cruelty, desertion for one year, or conviction of a felony resulting in imprisonment of more than one year. A service member’s deployment does not automatically toll the separation period; the facts of each case determine whether a fault or no-fault ground is appropriate. To discuss which ground may apply to your circumstances, contact Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C. at (888) 437-7747.

How is a military pension divided in a Virginia divorce?

Under the USFSPA and Virginia equitable distribution law, a military pension earned during the marriage is treated as marital property subject to division by the Henrico County Circuit Court. The court first determines the marital share—the portion of the pension earned during the marriage—and then divides it equitably considering the statutory factors in Va. Code § 20-107.3. A military pension cannot be divided by a Qualified Domestic Relations Order; instead, the Department of Defense uses a separate mechanism under the USFSPA to pay the former spouse directly if the marriage lasted at least ten years overlapping the service member’s creditable military service. For shorter marriages, other division methods apply.

Does deployment affect child custody in a Virginia military divorce?

Deployment alone is not grounds to permanently modify custody, but Virginia courts give it weight in making practical parenting-time arrangements. Under Va. Code § 20-124.3, the court considers ten factors when determining the best interests of the child, including each parent’s ability to maintain a close and continuing relationship with the child. A service member’s deployment may lead to temporary adjustments in parenting time, and a family care plan may be incorporated into the custody order. The Henrico County Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court can address custody issues that arise outside a pending divorce. For a consultation on custody matters involving military parents, reach the firm at (888) 437-7747. India is not a signatory to the 1980 Hague Convention on Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction.

Can a military spouse get support in Virginia while the divorce is pending?

Yes. A military spouse may request pendente lite support under Va. Code § 20-103, and a service member’s commander may also require support through the service’s family-support regulations. Pendente lite relief can include temporary spousal support, child support, exclusive use of the family residence, and an order preventing the dissipation of marital assets. Each branch of the armed forces has regulations requiring service members to support their dependents during separation. The Henrico County Circuit Court and the Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court each handle different aspects of temporary support, depending on whether the relief is sought within or outside the divorce.

How do I start a military divorce in Henrico County?

Starting a military divorce in Henrico County begins with filing a Complaint for Divorce in the Henrico County Circuit Court at 4301 East Parham Road after confirming that Virginia has jurisdiction under Va. Code § 20-97. At least one party must establish six months of residency and domicile. The complaint must identify the grounds for divorce and state what relief the filing party seeks—custody, support, property division, or all three. Service of process must comply with Virginia rules and the SCRA if the respondent is a service member. Because military divorce involves intersecting state and federal laws, speaking with an attorney before filing can help avoid jurisdictional missteps. To request a consultation with Mr. Sris, call (888) 437-7747.

Also serving these Virginia localities: Family Law Lawyer Chesterfield County, Family Law Lawyer Hanover County, Family Law Lawyer Fairfax County, Family Law Lawyer Fairfax City, and Family Law Lawyer Falls Church.

Primary-source authority: Virginia Code § 20-91 (Divorce Grounds), Virginia Code § 20-107.3 (Equitable Distribution), and Henrico County Circuit Court.

Last reviewed: July 2026

Attorney advertising. Prior results do not guarantee a similar outcome. Case results depend on a variety of factors unique to each case. Results may vary. Engaging Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C. Requires a signed engagement agreement. The firm’s Richmond location is at 7400 Beaufont Springs Drive, Suite 300, Richmond, VA 23225. By appointment only. Call (888) 437-7747 to schedule a consultation.

© 1997-2026 Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C.


All practice pages

Reviewed by Mr. Sris, Owner and Founder.

Attorney advertising. This page is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice, nor does it create an attorney-client relationship. Statutes and their application change and vary by case. Prior results do not guarantee a similar outcome; results may vary. For advice about your specific situation, consult a licensed attorney. Attorney responsible for this advertising: Mr. Sris.